Most often when life beats us with a big stick, the normal question is “Why me?”. We whine, mope and then take actions to get over the suffering painfully.  What if you changed the question to “So what?”.  Well, my uncle said that in difficult times, this is the question he asks, and then happily solves the issue. 

So my friend, 
when you are out and down, in despair,
just ask the simple question, to repair,
“So what?”.